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¿SABES CUÁL ES LA DIFERENCIA ENTRE AMAR Y QUERER?

Muchas veces hemos confundido amar , con querer a alguien , pero la verdad es que esta muy lejos de que sean iguales …

Presta mucha atención a la siguiente historia :

“Te amo” – dijo el principito

-Yo también te quiero -dijo la rosa

-No es lo mismo , respondió el….

Querer…

Es tomar posesión de algo , de alguien, es buscar en los demás eso que llena las expectativas personales de afecto , de compañía …

Querer …

Es hacer nuestro lo que no nos pertenece , es adueñarnos o desear algo para completarnos , por que en algún punto nos reconocemos carentes …

Querer….

Es esperar , es apegarse a las cosas y a las personas desde nuestras necesidades , entonces cuando no tenemos reciprocidad hay sufrimiento , cuando el bien querido no nos corresponde , nos sentimos frustrados y decepcionados .

Si quiero a alguien tengo expectativas , espero algo, si la otra persona no me da lo que espero , sufro , el problema es que hay una mayor probabilidad que la otra persona tenga otras motivaciones , pues todos somos muy diferentes …

Cada ser humano es un universo , Amar es decear lo mejor para el otro , aun cuando tenga motivaciones muy distintas .

Amar …

Es permitir que seas feliz , aun cuando tu camino sea diferente al mio , es un sentimiento desinteresado que nace en un donarse , es darse por completo desde el corazón , por esto el Amor nunca sera causa de sufrimiento …

Cuando una persona dice que ha sufrido por amor , en realidad a sufrido por querer , no por amar , se sufre por apegos , si realmente se ama no puedes sufrir , pues nada has esperado del otro .

Cuando amamos …

Nos entregamos sin pedir nada a cambio , por el simple y puro placer de dar , pero es cierto también que esa entrega , ese dar desinteresado , solo se da en el conocimiento …

Solo podemos amar lo que conocemos , por que amar implica tirarse al vacío, confiar la vida y el alma , y el alma nos indemniza , y conocerse es justamente saber de ti , de tus alegrías , de tu paz , pero también de tus enojos , de tus luchas , de tus errores , por que el amor trasciende la lucha , el enojo , el error y no solo para momentos de alegría .

Amar …

Es la confianza plena que pase lo que pase vas a estar , no por que me debas nada , no con posesión egoísta , sino estar , en silenciosa compañía.

Amar …

Es saber que no te cambia el tiempo ni las tempestades ni mis inviernos, amar es darte un lugar en mi corazón para que te quedes como padre , madre, hermano, hijo , amigo y saber que en el tuyo hay un lugar para mi …

Dar amor no agota el amor , por el contrario , lo aumenta , la manera de devolver tanto amor es abrir el corazón y dejarse amar.

-Ya entendí -dijo la rosa

-No lo entiendas , vívelo -dijo el principito

Y tu , estas amando ? , o queriendo ?

Espero haya sido de gran reflexión para ti , y vivas plenamente ese gran amor que estas sintiendo por alguien … https://www.holasoyale.com/amor-romantico/en-tu-vida-solo-tendras-tres-amores/

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